Modern-day kids have more expertise in anything electronic or the latest gadgets, which is a good thing. Technology is changing rapidly and Gen Z is keeping up with it. However, no matter how much technology changes our lives, there are some basic life skills that kids need to know even today. Here is a list of many old fashioned skills that kids need to know before they move out and start life on their own.
Old Fashioned Skills that Kids Need to Know
As parents, it is up to us to prepare our children for the future. They need to learn lots of basic skills to become independent adults before they head off into the world. With modern conveniences these days, many people have lost the basic skills that not only save money, but in many cases, could prove essential, especially in a survival situation.
Here are 80+ old-fashioned life skills that modern kids should know.
Homemaking Skills
- Wash the dishes with and without a dishwasher
- Cook and bake basic dishes
- Sew on buttons, hooks, and line stitches
- Mend holes in clothes and socks
- How to do the laundry
- Learn to iron clothes
- Learn how to correctly set the table
- Grow a garden
- Use basic tools such as a hammer, screw driver and power tools
- Entertain and care for younger children and babies
- How to change a lightbulb
- To read and follow a recipe
- How to care for a pet
- Hang a picture
- Have good table manners
- Clean the house including dusting, vacuuming and mopping
- Unclog the toilet and sink
- Use kitchen appliances
- Basic first aid skills
- Assemble furniture
- Test a smoke alarm
Technical Skills
- How to write a letter
- Learn to read and write cursive
- Read a book
- Take a message
- Make a phone call and talk on a phone
- To write a thank you note
- Address and send an envelope
- Use office equipment such as refilling a stapler
- Find and check out a book at the library
- Read a map
- To be able to use an alarm, a calendar, and schedule appointments
- To to speak publicly
- Back up computer files
- Protect / change passwords
- Contact roadside assistance
- Renew licence / registration
- How to vote
- Forward mail
- Create a will
- File important documents
- Read a manual
Survival Skills
- How to change a tyre
- Put petrol / gas in a car
- Check for tyre pressure
- Light a match and start a fire
- Pitching a tent
- Finding clean water
- Be able to recognise harmful plants
- Identify animal prints
- Use a fire extinguisher
- Pump up bike tyres and balls
- Learn how to catch a fish, hunt and gather food
- Wash, detail and book a service for a car
- Jumpstart a car
Personal Skills
- How to apologise for a mistake
- Learn to take responsibility for actions and admit fault
- Show respect to elders
- Initiate a conversation, and ask questions to keep the person engaged and to get to know them better
- Genuinely apologise
- Shake hands
- Introduce yourself
- Take notice of things around you and the needs of others
- Work at a job until it is completed
- Work out the pros and cons of a decision
- Working to the best of your ability
- To care for someone who is ill
- To be kind to everyone
- Dress for the occasion, present yourself well and behave correctly
- Learn to be grateful for what you have
- To be able to socialise without technology
- Prepare for an interview
- How to work in a team
- Accept compliments and criticism
- Self care – sleep, nutrition, exercise, hygiene
Financial Skills
- To choose a thoughtful gift for someone within your budget
- How to make and stick to a budget
- How to save money
- Pay bills
- How to make major purchases
- Organise financial records and to tax
- How to negotiate effectively
- Open bank account
- Understand credit and debt
Some of these might sound obvious, but in the fast-paced world we are living in, kids are forgetting these basic life skills, getting absorbed in video games and social media instead. They are unable to remember the very essence of basic livelihood, relying entirely on technology every step of the way.
Be it ordering food or groceries, doing the dishes, doing the laundry, we have a machine to do it for us. And this is making us sedentary, leading to a multitude of physical and mental problems like obesity, depression, identity crisis, and more.
The only way to stop this is to teach our kids these basic life skills, the old-fashioned way. They might not seem interested at first, but once they get their hands on it, they will love doing it just like we did before technology replaced us. You could even use these as ‘chores’ or as part of your homeschooling.
It is not important to use these skills all the time; it is important to have enough knowledge of these so that in case of an emergency, such as when the dishwasher breaks, they run over a screw and their car tyre goes flat, or when they are lost, they know what to do. These skills will even teach them how to survive in hard times, without technology.
Above all, being self-dependent is the main purpose of learning these skills. Why depend on machines and technology or other people to do your work for you? The joy derived from doing your own tasks on your own is incomparable and the sense of accomplishment it leaves behind is to be cherished. They will truly feel like an adult when they act like an adult; take responsibility for themselves and their actions as well as present themselves in society as someone knowledgeable and independent.
Be it writing letters instead of sending a text message, or changing the tyre of the car on their own car, without the help of a mechanic, these skills will come in handy to them in every situation of life.
And believe me, they are super fun to learn too!
More Resources
- Teaching Kids Financial Responsibility
- Printable Weekly Planners
- Printable Daily Planners
- Learn to cook with cooking challenges
- Tips To Improve Homeschooling High School
- Utilising the Library
- Tips for Teaching your Child to Cook
- Menu Planning Binder
- Easy Ways to Save on Food
- 10 Ways to Simplify your Life
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